I’m finally introducing Matt to my parents this weekend.
The occasion happens to be a little brunch with my family to celebrate my mom’s birthday.
Should he bring anything for my mom, whom he’s never met? If so, what? We’re both trying to figure this one out.
Flowers- from my experience. Everybody pretty much likes them and they make a good impression.
I agree with Homer for exactly the same reasons. Also, if your mother has a favorite kind of flower, please feel free to steer Matt in the right direction.
I agree – you can never go wrong with flowers. Even a simple little bouquet with a card that says something along the lines of “It’s a pleasure to finally meet you and celebrate your birthday…” blah blah blah. She’ll swoon. It’s what moms do.
A bag of oranges.
Yes flowers but keep it simple,and no card he can offer his best wishes as he meets your mother. Your own present with card should only be from you only no joint gift or card it is too soon for that….Bill
Is the brunch in a restaurant? If so, flowers might be awkward. How about a small box of exquisite chocolates? Godiva, say. No card, since it’s as much a “how nice to meet you” gift as a birthday gift.
I agree with flowers… but they can be awkward. If you think of it, you might call ahead and make arrangements to have them put in water when you get there, which would be a nice touch.
Or chocolate, as Bent said… but Godiva?
*rolls eyes*
; )
Might I suggest something a little more colorful:
http://www.vosgeschocolate.com/
Flowers are typical American consumerist-waste. Try a plant, or at least something with a function that lasts more than a week.
Be un-american: Respect resources and cash.
.rob adams says arrest the consumerists
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