One blogger has weighed in on my piece and also clarifies some of what had me confused about Farmboyz’s post.
Update: Meanwhile, a few other people have commented at Farmboyz’s post and are reacting as if I’m telling people how to live their lives. Where the hell in my piece are they getting this from? Have some gay men become so overly sensitive and defensive that they see offense when there isn’t any?
Like me, he’s enabled comment moderation, so this may not be the full range of responses. We’ll see whether mine goes live.
The gist of my response was that it’s not appropriate to publicly tell unflattering personal stories about people you barely know. Except I also used the word “dickish.”